➤Habits change , nature does not !

Let me share this lovely story with you. Hope you will learn something at the end of it-

Once a man named Narhar lived in a village. He was very kind hearted.

One day, he saw a wounded mother python with a new born baby python. She died soon. Narhar felt pity and took the baby home.

He named it Kalia and took care of it. Kalia grew in size and would protect the house from mice and small animals. The villagers and kids would play with Kalia.

One day when he gave him milk, it did not drink. Kalia did not consume for many days. Narhar felt sad. H would pat his back to feed but in vain. Every night, Kalia would sleep besides him.

After a week, Narhar took Kalia to a doctor.

Doctor :‘How long is it with you ?’.

Narhar: ‘5 years’.

Doctor: ‘How did you find him?’

Narhar: ‘In the forest, when he was born his mother was attacked. She died and I brought Kalia home’.

Doctor: ‘Since when he is hungry?’

Narhar: ‘7 days. He only sleeps by my side’

Doctor: ‘Hmm. What he usually eats?’

Narhar: ‘Milk and feeds on mice, rats and protects our house’.

Doctor: ‘Hmm. Ok. “Narhar, it is starving since 7 days because it is planning to kill you!! It lies by your side to measure the length of his prey to engulf. Save your life’.

Narhar was shocked and left the python in the forest.

Moral –Animal or human, they never leave their nature.

➤5 Top jobs for women

There are 25 lakh diverse professions in the world. How to choose the best ? Here is my pick for the modern women, with time-tested justification-

1) Teaching

You can be a teacher in any subject. Your God gifted ability to speak well would make you successful. Moreover, this is one profession where time demands are comparatively less. Hence, you can make a fine balance between work and family.

2) HR Department

HR professionals need to be compassionate, understanding and problem solvers. Women can affectionately listen to the problems and genuinely try to address these. Their keenness to find a way assists them in succeeding in the profession.

 3) Dentistry

You might have a love for science subjects and always wanted to be a Doctor. Or you wanted to serve the humanity!!! MBBS or MD are required to be ready to meet emergencies even at odd night hours. Fortunately, with BDS/MDS, you can get your ambition fulfilled without having the stress for 24 hours a day. Moreover, it takes lesser years of studying.

4) Law

Females are known as better orators with strong argumentative ability. Legal profession is for people with strong situational understanding. Women would be in a better position to be analyse all aspects and then present the case, as appropriate.

5) Journalism

The profession is associated with glamour and women can justify well. Requires excellent communication skills and strong personality. Modern women are brought up with the mind-set of a tough person. Journalism can be tiring at times but name, fame and money can be pursued easily.

Of course, you will succeed easily if you choose any other profession which is close to you heart and you work relentlessly.


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xo!!

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➤The Angels in Women !!!

It would be a real challenge to pick top universal qualities of women. However, I dedicate these five which I admire the most-

1) Even God needs her to  bring a new life 

God is worshipped because He is the creator. But, how can He bring a new creature in this world without her help? The ability to give birth is an amazing wonder of all times. She needs to be worshiped for the same reason.

2) She will multiply whatever you give her

She is a multiplier. You give her a house, she will make it a home. You give her a man, she will make a family. You give her a smile, she will return a laughter. You give her an argument, she will convert into a fight. Give her love, she will give herself completely. Choice is yours, what you want to multiply !!!

3) She is a stronger gender

She is not a fairer or weaker sex. She can withstand stresses and burdens better. She can do a full time job, full time home maker and full time family attention, all at the same time. She can have sleepless nights due to family members' sickness and still work the full next day without complaints. She feels happy even when she gets kicks from her baby in her womb. Strength personified !!!

4) Only woman has the ability of multi-tasking

She can count cooker whistles, listen to TV serials, keep an eyes on the study of kids and talk to her husband, all at the same time. She is a magical multi-tasker. A man can do only one thing at a time. If you want to talk to him when he is watching time, he need remote to pause TV to listen to you. Woman are naturally superior !!!

5) She does not need anyone to complete her

She can cook, hail a cab, nurse her baby, care for her in-laws and catch up on lost sleep. Mahatma Buddha deserted his wife after their son's birth. She nurtured her son all alone despite all the difficulties. When Buddha returned, she told him that people will remember his teachings of enlightenment but her lesson would be largely unknown. When asked...she announced with un-shed tears...Woman is complete on her own !!!

Salute to every woman on this woman's day !!!

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➤When laziness is better than perfection !!!

The "search for excellence" is different from "efforts of perfection". Why should we be pushed to be perfect ???👯💃

1)You do not have to be better than others

When you try to be perfect, you are actually competing with others. That is not the right strategy. You have to compete with yourself only. Raise your own bar everyday. As long as you are ahead of where you were yesterday, you are a hero. A daily hero !!!

2) Perfection requires a lot more energy

There is lot of efforts difference between "Nearly Perfect" and " Perfect". Ask a student who gets 99% marks and one who gets 100%. A sculputre may spend many more hours to reach the state of perfection with his idol. This Perfection is his state of mind, not of statute. Work smart !!!

3) Perfection is the attempt to be someone else

Perfection is a state of mind in which you try to imitate your role models. Self improvement books and motivational speakers set these standards for you. You start believing that you will not be complete if you do not do a perfect job every time. You already are Perfect !!!

4) 80:20 rule will do more good

Famous Italian sociologist Pareto propounded his famous theory on income distribution as 80:20 in all aspects. You will be better off with regard to income, relationships and productivity if you reach just 80% of target perfection. 50% will get you at 80% output. That means , your output will be 160% rather than 100% with Perfection as target. Laziness...with applause !!!

5) Try to be more effective , not efficient

Efficiency is "doing the things right". Effectiveness is "doing the right things". Choose the activities which are giving you results rather than working hard on any one activity. Today is an age of multi-specialist rather than single experts. Look at the success of multi-specialist hospitals. Focus on acquired skills, not natural abilities!!!

Smell the roses. If you are happy, you will be more productive...


Cheers !!!

XO!!

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➤Movie - "Lion" : Power in a Pack !!!

Why everyone is talking about Lion? The tear-jerker 🙏 scenes, inter-twisted with spell-bound story line is the prime reason. 
But.. these 5 reasons of this inspiring story will impact your personality as well...

1) Survival skills

Saroo gets lost and learns to adapt and survive under difficult circumstances. It reinforces the fact that fortune favours the bravo. Eventually, he gets adopted by a rich family. It pushes you to be brave by showing your best.

2) Never give up

Saroo is missing his family and he knows that the chances are remote to be re-united. But he does not give up. With just handful of memories, he finally succeeds. An uplifting story of courage and determination.

3) Embrace your past

He feels comfortable with his past. He gives neat explanations of his family, mother and background. Despite the long duration of separation, he remembers the important facets of his life. Your roots will define your identity.

4) You get what you want

Saroo is adopted by a well-to-do family. He has no shortage of materialistic comforts but his heart longs for his lost family. He sets out his search and eventually gets there. His unwavering determination is a lesson to be learnt.

5) Technology is your friend

Google Earth supports Saroo's efforts to reach his mission. Technology must be accepted with enthusiasm. Results and accomplishments get amplified automatically.

The plot is a pure fit for Oscars and potential for your admiration...

Cheers !!!

XO!

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