➤5 Top jobs for women

There are 25 lakh diverse professions in the world. How to choose the best ? Here is my pick for the modern women, with time-tested justification-

1) Teaching

You can be a teacher in any subject. Your God gifted ability to speak well would make you successful. Moreover, this is one profession where time demands are comparatively less. Hence, you can make a fine balance between work and family.

2) HR Department

HR professionals need to be compassionate, understanding and problem solvers. Women can affectionately listen to the problems and genuinely try to address these. Their keenness to find a way assists them in succeeding in the profession.

 3) Dentistry

You might have a love for science subjects and always wanted to be a Doctor. Or you wanted to serve the humanity!!! MBBS or MD are required to be ready to meet emergencies even at odd night hours. Fortunately, with BDS/MDS, you can get your ambition fulfilled without having the stress for 24 hours a day. Moreover, it takes lesser years of studying.

4) Law

Females are known as better orators with strong argumentative ability. Legal profession is for people with strong situational understanding. Women would be in a better position to be analyse all aspects and then present the case, as appropriate.

5) Journalism

The profession is associated with glamour and women can justify well. Requires excellent communication skills and strong personality. Modern women are brought up with the mind-set of a tough person. Journalism can be tiring at times but name, fame and money can be pursued easily.

Of course, you will succeed easily if you choose any other profession which is close to you heart and you work relentlessly.


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➤The Angels in Women !!!

It would be a real challenge to pick top universal qualities of women. However, I dedicate these five which I admire the most-

1) Even God needs her to  bring a new life 

God is worshipped because He is the creator. But, how can He bring a new creature in this world without her help? The ability to give birth is an amazing wonder of all times. She needs to be worshiped for the same reason.

2) She will multiply whatever you give her

She is a multiplier. You give her a house, she will make it a home. You give her a man, she will make a family. You give her a smile, she will return a laughter. You give her an argument, she will convert into a fight. Give her love, she will give herself completely. Choice is yours, what you want to multiply !!!

3) She is a stronger gender

She is not a fairer or weaker sex. She can withstand stresses and burdens better. She can do a full time job, full time home maker and full time family attention, all at the same time. She can have sleepless nights due to family members' sickness and still work the full next day without complaints. She feels happy even when she gets kicks from her baby in her womb. Strength personified !!!

4) Only woman has the ability of multi-tasking

She can count cooker whistles, listen to TV serials, keep an eyes on the study of kids and talk to her husband, all at the same time. She is a magical multi-tasker. A man can do only one thing at a time. If you want to talk to him when he is watching time, he need remote to pause TV to listen to you. Woman are naturally superior !!!

5) She does not need anyone to complete her

She can cook, hail a cab, nurse her baby, care for her in-laws and catch up on lost sleep. Mahatma Buddha deserted his wife after their son's birth. She nurtured her son all alone despite all the difficulties. When Buddha returned, she told him that people will remember his teachings of enlightenment but her lesson would be largely unknown. When asked...she announced with un-shed tears...Woman is complete on her own !!!

Salute to every woman on this woman's day !!!

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➤When laziness is better than perfection !!!

The "search for excellence" is different from "efforts of perfection". Why should we be pushed to be perfect ???👯💃

1)You do not have to be better than others

When you try to be perfect, you are actually competing with others. That is not the right strategy. You have to compete with yourself only. Raise your own bar everyday. As long as you are ahead of where you were yesterday, you are a hero. A daily hero !!!

2) Perfection requires a lot more energy

There is lot of efforts difference between "Nearly Perfect" and " Perfect". Ask a student who gets 99% marks and one who gets 100%. A sculputre may spend many more hours to reach the state of perfection with his idol. This Perfection is his state of mind, not of statute. Work smart !!!

3) Perfection is the attempt to be someone else

Perfection is a state of mind in which you try to imitate your role models. Self improvement books and motivational speakers set these standards for you. You start believing that you will not be complete if you do not do a perfect job every time. You already are Perfect !!!

4) 80:20 rule will do more good

Famous Italian sociologist Pareto propounded his famous theory on income distribution as 80:20 in all aspects. You will be better off with regard to income, relationships and productivity if you reach just 80% of target perfection. 50% will get you at 80% output. That means , your output will be 160% rather than 100% with Perfection as target. Laziness...with applause !!!

5) Try to be more effective , not efficient

Efficiency is "doing the things right". Effectiveness is "doing the right things". Choose the activities which are giving you results rather than working hard on any one activity. Today is an age of multi-specialist rather than single experts. Look at the success of multi-specialist hospitals. Focus on acquired skills, not natural abilities!!!

Smell the roses. If you are happy, you will be more productive...


Cheers !!!

XO!!

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➤Selfies may be harming your self-image

Share if you smiled. It often brings a smile on your face when you see young teenagers make funny poses in front of their mobile cameras. The exercise finishes only after endless angles and emotions. 

You are right, they are mastering the art of SELFIE.

But, how good these are to your self-esteem?

1)  A selfie is actually not YOU

When you take dozens of pic and choose the best for posting on social site, you are presenting what others will admire, not what you actually are. You manipulate and adjust according to the world at large. This harms your self esteem in the long run.

2) You present only a part-self to the world

You take tremendous pain to crop the perceived unwanted areas of your body or surroundings to have a rosy-rosy feeling. You become a presentable FAKE. In an overt zeal to please others, you are destroying a part of you. If you do not love yourself, how would others do ?

3) You remain self-obsessed

You must enjoy the event, dinner, function or picnic. However, if you continually focus on taking selfies, you will miss the pleasure. You are not enjoying the present since you are constantly thinking about posting the selfie as soon as you can. You will have a pic to post without a story to tell.

4) Do you have a selfie-mania

Psychologists believe selfie-mania temporarily paralyses you. you become oblivious of the occasion or people around you. Selfies at cremations or accident spots raises serious questions about this addiction. 

The American Psychiatric Association (APA) has officially confirmed what many people thought all along: taking ‘selfies’ is a mental disorder. The disorder is called selfitis, and is defined as the obsessive compulsive desire to take photos of one’s self and post them on social media as a way to make up for the lack of self-esteem and to fill a gap in intimacy.

5) I, me, myself attitude

You project a self image of "I am OK, you are not OK". After your posting your regularly and persistently check the comments and like for your selfie. This leads to inflated self image. Also, if you do not responses, you get desperate, ask people to respond or even get upset. All this inhibits your relationships with world at large.

And, of course your are vulnerable to mis-use of your selfies by unwanted elements.

Enjoy the selfies but keep as a fun/hobby not as an obsession or addiction. It should not overshadow your other positive personality traits.

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